Writings On The Walls

I wish I had a direct sign or signal of what we should be doing. I feel so torn. We have to figure out if we are going to stay in this area or move elsewhere. Part of me feels like I can stay here for a while but not forever. I get nervous about the lack of opportunities there are for future children. I was so nervous about raising kids in Orange County with the material pressures but here I would be nervous about the trouble they could get in to. There is not a lot to do up here and it seems things have changed a lot since I was here (almost 10 years ago)
On the other hand, I really want my parents to be involved in our children's lives. If we move somewhere else (like back down to orange county) there would be a huge distance between us.
I want the best of both worlds. I want opportunities and my family. I don't see that happening together thus we have to make a decision.
Where is my sign? Where is the confirmation of staying or going?